Kristi here, welcome to my online Community For Women to learn the Art of Self Love and gain the confidence to feel good about themselves and strive for their dreams and goals.
I’m a Wife, Mumma, Day Care Mumma, Blogger, Influencer, Women’s Advocate and Animal & Maxi Dress lover.
I’m sharing my journey to inspire other women that self love leads to a life of success and abundance…

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.

Eleanor Roosevelt

What’s on my mind lately…

  • How to stop caring about what other’s think.
    How to stop caring about what other's think. Try this advice and tips to live your life as YOU and no one else.

    How to stop caring about what others think of you. Do you always think about what others think of you? I’m going to admit something to you now…I do. And I always have. And at almost 44, I still care too much of what other people think. I guess old habits are hard to break right?

    So for me it’s really everyone, family, friends and strangers. And I’m letting go as of now! Want to join me?

    Here are the reasons both you and I should stop caring what others think. Because it’s time to be free. My recent post will help you learn to look at yourself differently and see the beauty that is you. Click the link to have a read. http://www.kristimaree.com/what-do-you-see-looking-through-the-lens/

    Not everyone is going to like you, and that’s OK. How to stop caring about what other’s think.

    Yes, it’s important to me to be liked, is it the same for you too? And let’s be honest, it’s part of being human right? A natural state of feeling, and a lot of fun. And the sad thing is we can’t really have our own perspective on something. Because you can be sure that one person will not think the same as you.

    But reality check, you can’t please everyone. That is an unrealistic dream. And the end result is not staying true to yourself. So it’s important to know it’s OK not everyone likes you. And you have to be OK that there might not be a reason, it just simply is. And that’s OK too.

    A reminder that keeps going.

    Yep, if you still care about what others think remember this is a journey. And you need to keep reminding yourself everyday that it’s OK for someone not to like you. Because practice makes perfect right? Remember these points

    • Life is to short so don’t have any regrets.
    • Always be true to yourself and who you are.
    • People do care mostly about themselves.

    So it’s not easy to stop caring of others opinions. But I promise you if you keep reminding yourself, it will get easier. Because you life was meant to be lived by YOU.

    People care about Themselves. How to stop caring about what others think.

    So what is your frist reaction when you think of this? Selfishness perhaps? But here me out. When we care about ourselves we are not neglecting our loved ones around us. It’s quite the opposite. We are taking care of our own needs to show up as the best version of ourselves when our loved ones need us. If we are not feeling satisfied and good about ourselves we are in a negative state and not in the best position to be offering support.

    But believe me there will be people who will care about what you do. And the reality is we leave their minds as soon as they see or hear something else. We have to be OK with that. Then don’t let it ruin your dreams. My free E book Self love a vital part to coping with stress will give you strategies to stay calm and keep being the best version of yourself. Click the link to grab your free copy. https://view.flodesk.com/emails/5eaec05f82272f0026fdf3a2

    So strike a pose, relax and let your hair down in the direction your going. This thing called life is a bumpy road. So buckle up is a requirement. This is an inspiring video (with a few choice words!) that will give you some more clarity on the magic of not caring. I hope it inspires you too.


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