Kristi here, welcome to my online Community For Women to learn how to be successful and confident leaders.
I’m a Wife, Mumma, Day Care Mumma, Blogger, Influencer, Women’s Advocate and Animal & Maxi Dress lover.
I’m sharing my journey to inspire other women to live their dreams…
What’s on my mind lately…
- HOW TO BE PATIENT LOVING AND KIND TO YOURSELF.
How to be more patient loving and kind to yourself. I truly believe that we are going through a phase where we don’t love our self, and we didn’t even know for a long time. And I realize that your probably thinking who does that make me to mentor you on a subject like this. Well through my journey of not liking myself I discovered self love and compassion for myself. And I knew that this was the way to living the life I love and finding my own happiness. Then I am so grateful that I did. Because this means that can share my experiences and guide you to learning how to love yourself. Here is my free guide 5 things women need to know about self love. Click the link below. https://view.flodesk.com/emails/5f53280e22a9aa00261d2199
Does This Mean That My Life is Flawless? How to be patient Loving and Kind to Yourself.
Ok, so when I say I have learned to love myself, this doesn’t mean that I am going to stop bettering myself and keep evolving into the women I want to become. Not at all, because I will always continue to be a better version of me. And I will keep showing gratitude and respect for my mind, body and soul.
And you don’t just learn to love yourself at the blink of an eye. It takes soul searching and digging into the roots of why you don’t feel love towards yourself. And this can go way back to infancy. It’s important to take things slow and feel comfortable with how things are unfolding. Because this journey can be really difficult, and we can discover things that we have kept hidden. Here is my recent post on how to turn self love into a lifestyle. Click the link below to read. http://www.kristimaree.com/how-to-turn-self-love-into-a/
Don’t Be So Hard On Yourself For Not Finding Love. How To Be Patient Kind And Loving To Yourself.
Can I ask you a question? Are you being too hard on yourself? And are you feeling like there is something wrong with you because you don’t feel love towards yourself. Maybe you are taking a long time to heal and you just want things to heal faster. And you can’t stand up to yourself, set boundaries you’ve always wanted to. Or you just wish you could have done things differently at some points in your life. But don’t rush it. This is a process where you will learn things about yourself that you never knew.
How to be patient loving and kind to yourself. Because I think we all reach a point where we learn to start to lesson our inner critic and pay attention to the wounds that need healing. And the journey of self love is not easy. When this time arrives we have to tap into our nurturing side and also learn to self comfort ourselves.
If your at the point where you feel like loving yourself is such a long way ahead. It’s time to stand up and move yourself out of your own path and focus on showing loving kindness to others around you. Because showing love to others around you will help you feel a sense of pride. You have to actually be the foundation of what you desire in your life. Here are some things to help when your in that trap of not loving yourself.
Try These Strategies On your Journey Of Self Love.
1- Connect with your imagination. Because what would happen if you really forgot that you are the person that is not kind and compassionate to herself. And how would your higher self or future self encourage you? You can then go and do something active to move that negative energy energy out of your body. You don’t have to feel bad for not feeling self love.
2- Think of someone who you know that could use some kindness, compassion and above all love. And now think of how you can show this person this self love act. And then I promise you, you will feel feel so rewarded and fulfilled like you never have before. Because what you have done will make an incredible impact on your life and your self love journey.
3- Meditate. Make a decision to take the time to stop, and connect with yourself. And see what feelings and emotions come up, and how they make you feel. Then use this time to uncover things that may be hidden deep within and need to be worked through to achieve feeling love towards yourself.
Because you can’t hide the feeling of self hate, so think about this. What if you gave yourself permission to NOT tear yourself down about anything? Take all that kindness, compassion at love you would give someone else and turn to give it to yourself. And what if the mistakes, and all the steps you’ve taken are leading you to a place where you can learn to be kind to yourself, love yourself and show compassion. Tell me, what would that look like and sound like for you?
All my love Kristi Xx